The Dreams That You Dare to Dream Really Do Come True

Somewhere over the rainbow…. that’s where I was going one day. And just like Dorothy I would step out of a world of black and white and see bright, brilliant colors. I would explore Oz with new friends. I would wear those ruby red heels.

The ‘Wizard of Oz’ was and still is my favorite movie. I would sit as close to the TV as my grandfather would allow me to sit, day after day, and stare in awe at the world of Oz as it unfolded on the screen. I also loved the books, and as an adult I read the “twist” Gregory Maguire put on Oz and loved those books, as well. I recently saw the newest Oz movie, ‘Oz: The Great and Powerful,” and yep… you guessed it! I loved it, too.

So when I fell in love and got engaged it only seemed natural for me to do a Wizard of Oz themed wedding. I’m going to finally get my ruby slippers!

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Back-to-school season

It’s that time of year again.

Back-to-school season.

But after spending 17 years in a classroom (from kindergarten to college), this is the first year I won’t be returning to an institution of learning.

The reality of my new “adult life” finally hit me this week as my sister started her first week of college. For months she worried about how the food would taste and how hot the dorm room would get without air conditioning.

Now, she’s completed her first full week and is already busy with coursework and finding the perfect extracurricular activities.

I can’t help but feel a bit jealous of her. The differences between college life and “adult life” have been an adjustment these past few months.

Now, I no longer live two blocks away from my college friends.  I can’t call and ask them to meet me at the frozen yogurt shop down the street or at the bar for a round of drinks.

I’ve also realized that Chinese restaurants and pizza places aren’t open until 3 a.m. for late night cravings. Happy hour happens during the time when I’m working. I won’t have a Christmas or summer break ever again.

I know I’m one of the lucky ones, though. I received a great job offer within my field of study right before graduation. I jumped right into the real world, tossing that cap and gown into the back of my closet and moving to Pennsylvania to start my career.

Sure, there are things I miss about the college lifestyle (see above), but I realized I can’t live vicariously through my sister’s college experience. Although I may want to give her advice on where to sit in class and what sort of parties to avoid, she’s embarking on a journey of a lifetime and deserves to enjoy it on her own.

That doesn’t mean I won’t be sending her cards or calling her to make sure she’s surviving finals week.

Actually, that is something I won’t miss – finals. I won’t miss finals at all.

What is your favorite college memory? What shocked you the most about the real world? Leave a comment sharing your favorite memory or advice for adjusting from college life to the workforce.

 

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Nomophobia

There’s something about the weight of my iphone in my hand. It’s reassuring, like an anchor to the rest of the world.
Occasionally I misplace my cellphone — later I find in buried in the sheets of my bed, or accidentally left in the car. But a panic envelops me until I find it. My chest tightens, I start to sweat, and terrible thoughts fill my head. What if I left it on top of my car and drove off? What if I put it down somewhere when I was shopping?

It’s only after my perfect little smart phone is back, balanced in the palm of my hand, that I realize how irrational and ridiculous my reaction had been. Regardless, at least once a month I go through the same episode. Continue reading

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In Google I Trust

Hi. My name is Stephanie and I trust Google too much.

The first step is admitting you have a problem, right? I should Google that…

As a child of the ’90s, my trust of Google should come as no surprise. The Internet and I practically grew up together.

The Internet certainly made school easier. Previous generations skipped to the school library and searched through encyclopedias larger than their heads for research projects. What did I do? I just logged on to a computer and went to the World Wide Web.

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Sensing a change

I shook hands with the car salesman and couldn’t help but break my poker face to grin.

I can’t wait to drive my new (used) car, a Subaru Impreza that I will officially buy later this week.

I strolled back to my old ride, a 1999 Oldsmobile Alero that has been passed through three generations of my family, one that’s been faithful to us for about 177,000 miles and counting. Continue reading

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Thanks for the memories

Lunch with The Evening Sun staff.

I graduated college with nothing more than a prayer of becoming a journalist.

It was 2008, the newspaper industry was reeling, some say it still is, and I didn’t have a journalism degree.

I was desperate to be a writer.

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A Different View on the Civil War

The Evening Sun—Brett Berwager

I paused and looked up, not quite sure if I had heard correctly. I read the quote back to the re-enactor sitting in front of me, just to make sure I had written it down correctly.
“People say Lincoln was a great president. He was the worst president we ever had.”
She nodded her approval of my record keeping, and continued speaking, but I began to space out.

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A fireworks show

I watched the boats glide along the lake, searching for the perfect spot to see the Codorus Blast fireworks show.

Note: These aren't the fireworks at Codorus. I just liked the picture.

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Lessons in a harsh economy

Last Thursday I went back to high school. A 2009 graduate of Bermudian
Springs, the last time I had been in the cafeteria was when I was
dressed in the symbolic cap and gown. But last week I was there, returning
as a writer, sent to cover the end of their 13 years of school.

Those 136 graduating seniors were so excited. I distinctly remember that feeling—ecstatic euphoria perhaps twinged with apprehension or maybe even sadness. On that night three years ago there was no nostalgia, no sadness, and no regret from me. Echoing the attitude of many before me, I was ready to be done. Move on to the bigger and better. Grandeur awaited.

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Daunted by car shopping

I’m in the market to buy a used car and I’m overwhelmed.

Cylinder configuration? Engine displacement? Tilt-wheel steering?

The options are dizzying.

Dozens of websites, blogs and reports – each proclaiming a different car is, hands down, the best buy. I’m at a loss. Continue reading

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